Posts by monssieurnotasub

• FInding FemDom

• Note: Under 18 or stumble in by accidental search hit?

  Be advised:

  The content of this blog is a confab on the topic of couples who “FemDom-BDSM” kink.

  Under 18 or not looking for this type of content?

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• If you don’t want the fantasy bubble popped………….

  then don’t read the blog.

  I’m not writing erotic fantasy.

  If you are looking for wank fodder------
  Might as well move along now cuz you won’t find anything good here, in fact what’s here will probably bore you to tears.

  The story of “us” is autobiographical….there’s no fantasy here.

  The nitty gritty underbelly of what happens when two people who aren’t on the same kink level try to incorporate a FemDom D/s lifestyle into an already established long term relationship.

  He’s the kinky one….

  I’m the one who will forever be playing catch up trying to not go under for the third time as he drags me from kinky thing to kinky thing.

  I have to give my husband props tho….he is smart enough to know if he drags me under for the third time……..he’s going down with me, so he works hard to prevent dragging me under.

• Blogs I Follow

  • The Suburban Domme
  • O Miss Pearl
  • The Edge of Vanilla
  • Elene Sallinger
  • E.T. Enter Tangentially
  • Temperature's Rising

• The Suburban Domme, not what you might expect!

  

  The Suburban Domme

  Mom, wife, business owner in that order. I live in a 24-7 D/s marriage. It’s always been a FLR but the addition of FemDom and D/s has become an integral part of our everyday life. I use my husband’s fetishes and kinky urges on him, not against him, to keep a happy balance in what is sometimes an unbalanced relationship due to the fact we are different ends of the kink spectrum. I’m not a merciless sadist. I tend to lean toward being a sensual sadist with a wicked sense of humor. Laughter is the best aphrodisiac in my world. I prefer giggling over cackling, a tender smile over a hateful sneer, issuing my sub a challenge as opposed to barking orders. Rarely will you find me in the standard issue Domme gear. That only comes out for scene play. The clothes do not make the Domme. I Domme my sub best in just plain ol’street clothes, a kitschy commentary type t-shirts, blue jeans and most likely cowboy boots and I do my Domme thing on the down low. I may be domming him right behind you at the market. If you see a man blush and fidget in response to a gesture or some words from the woman he is with, that might just *BE* me and my sub.

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