Being forced against your will…IS ABUSE!!

 Back on the Informed Consent soap box:

https://thesuburbandomme.com/2013/02/20/informed-consent/

I had another search term hit that indicates someone is being forced to participate in BDSM activities against their will.

THIS IS NOT BDSM!

THIS IS ABUSE!

The words force and forced are often used in erotic writings and vid scripts as the main theme.

It is important to keep in mind the concept of forced in the theme is

CONSENSUAL FORCE.

Anything other than that………….is a crime punishable by law and the ones who perpetrate such monstrous acts should be judged as harshly as the law permits.

BEING FORCED by a Master/Dom or Mistress/Domme is part of the dynamic in D/s but the force is not without consent and also not without respecting the hard limits who gave permission to be forced.

No BDSM player worth their salt…No BDSM player who grasps the concept of the laws human nature and those of the land they reside in……. that go with coerced participation…..would never force someone unwilling to participate in any type of activity.

THIS IS THE CLEAR CUT DISTINCTION BETWEEN BDSM AND ABUSE.
!!!!!BDSM IS NEVER FORCED OR COERCED !!!!!!!!

Anyone who says that doesn’t make sense…..or force can’t be consented to….

or that forcing someone to do something against their will is part of BDSM……….
DOES NOT grasp the core foundation of BDSM’s
S.S.C——Safe Sane and Consensual
Or
 R.A.C.K.—–Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
https://thesuburbandomme.com/2013/02/10/s-s-c-r-a-c-k/

IT IS THIS SIMPLE:
IF YOU ARE BEING FORCED TO DO ANYTHING YOU DID NOT CONSENT TO AS A TOP OR AS A BOTTOM….IT IS ABUSE.

 The person who is forcing you is breaking the law and should be dealt with as a law-breaker!