Work in progress…..

I was shocked to find this morning, others had found me.

I’m still learning my way around the blog site, still figuring out all the bells and whistles.

So please…bear with me because this is very much a work in progress.

The idea behind this blog is a frank open look at a couple who are dealing with kink in a long term relationship. It is about taking the fear and trepidation out of incorporating some type of BDSM into the relationship.

My husband is much more kinked up then I am, I have spent all my married years taking his kinky nature and making it work for both of us.

That hasn’t always been easy. His ideal idea of what he wanted was based on bad internet surfing.

We are just two people who love and adore each other…built a life together…..and needed to find a way to manage the one thing and only thing that has caused grief in our life:

His kinky nature.

There is no “dungeon” so to speak….just a spare bedroom full of interesting tools of torment.

My husband leaves the house looking like many of the metrosexuals who walk out the door every work day all over the world, but on any given day under his Dockers and button down shirt, he is locked up in a CB6000 and wearing a pair of lacy panties.

Once he gets in in the evening, it may just be a quiet evening of boring and mundane but it could also be an evening full of fetish play that would look mild to some, wild to others.

As with our life….I have no idea where this blog will go. To those brave enough to stick around, I look forward to what topics your comments will muse me into as I make way thru the startup of this blog. Pardon my “bull in a china shop” ways for what it’s worth, I tend to be a klutz in the real world also.