If you ended up here looking for information about BDSM/ FemDom –D/s…..
No question is dumb.
He looks at FemDom porn, does that mean he wants me to do stuff like that?
What am I supposed to do to be “Domme or Mistress”?
What does he mean when he says he wants to be my sub/slave?
Why is he being so difficult?
What’s wrong with me the way I am?
Why does he want me to change?
Why does he want this?
Is there something wrong with him?
How do I tell him I don’t want to do this?
How do I do “this”?
What do I do what “that”?
How am I supposed _____________ ?
What is he asking for when he says he wants me to___________________?
What does it mean to be “24-7” ?
How do I humiliate him?
He wants me to spank him?
What do Pro Dommes ( Dominatrix) do?
How do they do what they do?
How do I do this with kids underfoot?
How do I do this outside our bedroom sex life?
Are people who do the D/s stuff swingers?
Do they have open marriages?
What is a masochist?
Is he a masochist?
What is a sadist?
Do I have to be a sadist to be a Fem Domme?
What is :
Cbt? Tease and denial? Lock up? Chastity? A “C.B.”? Edge play? Water sports/Golden showers? Sounding? Pain play? Wax play? P spot milking? Depersonalization? Figgin? Cuckolding? Polyamoury? TPE/EPE?
Or-or-or….and-and-and……….the list goes on and on.
I’ve been there……..I have asked all the above questions plus lord only know how many others over the last 10ish years.
When I went looking for information I was inundated to the point of being overwhelmed…with porn images and stories that only made me feel worse….and sent me into a panic.
If this is you…if this is where you are:
Have a seat, get comfy, ask all the question you need to and be assured you are in a spot where you will get straight answer in a porn free environment.
I don’t have all the answers…..but I have some awesome “go to” folks who are right here…and others beyond my happy place in the blogosphere…that can help me help you.
I can’t tell anyone
HOW TO……
But hopefully….
I can help you find information that will help you figure out
HOW TO do this or not do this…
in a way that works for you.
The Suburban Domme 
I’m going to make an unsolicited suggestion, Serendipity.
Via your Dashboard, you can go into your Widgets. Find the ‘site search’ widget, then drag and drop it to the right side bar.
That way, your blog will have an internal search function for readers to utilize. (Mine is on my right side bar in between my Category Cloud (Looking for Something?) and my Tag Cloud (Hot Topics), and is titled “Go ahead… Take a peek!”) That way, newcomers (or old cummers) can type in any search term that suits their purposes ~ like ‘sounding’ for example ~ and any/all posts you’ve written that include language about ‘sounding’ will pop up.
Easy, peasy. And user-friendly 🙂
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HA!
*Blowing kisses at The Feve*
Hot damn it worked…
and
THANK YOU!!!!!!
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Fabulous! 😀 You’re welcome. 😉
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Hi there. I’m new to this; my partner loves to be dominated. He’s had a mistress before, a woman who he was not involved with but they had/have an intense sub/domme relationship. He tells me he doesn’t engage with her anymore because he knows it.hurts my feelings but I still want to be as good as she was. Can you give me some advise as to how to proceed. He says his limits are light pain, he loves bondage and has a foot fetish. Speaking of which. Should I use my feet to punish or reward him? Thanks. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Welcome to the ‘burbs….I have answered you here:
https://thesuburbandomme.com/2014/06/18/the-following-is-a-commentary-on-a-comment/
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